What Do You Struggle With

Today I am in another season and three days ago I was in another. This is the life we live in. Nothing is permanent, things come and things go. So are our seasons. What is good today may be bad tomorrow, there is always a change and movement

Hello to you all my readers, today in my heart I felt like talking to you about this area: what is it that we struggle about in life? I know some I tired to hear about it, some still struggles and others are doing something. Whatever it is, I want to say to you “Be aware and know that nothing under the sun is meant to be easy” We struggle because we are human. We strive for perfection because we are imperfect. We want to see good because we hate bad things. We are always striving for something, this is life hey

But whatever your struggles are, be it social, physical, spiritual, mental, emotional or financial; know that they are not forever. You have the power to change things around. The only time something seems forever is when you do nothing about it. Know your struggles, know you’re battles. You cannot go to a battle field unprepared, unless you not prepared for a win or victory. In simple terms I mean know your areas of struggles and prepare on how to focus your your energies to fight on them. If I have a burn on my thigh how do I think I will heal unless I treat it. Same with struggles,

Know them , list them, develop a plan to work on them, focus on the plan, implement and be consistent. Most of all know what is a priority for you and not someone else’s

With a vigorous exercise or doing, patience, believing in the process you taking, confidence and focus there is no way that you will be in the same place or situation forever. The mistake that we do as human beings is comparing ourselves to others We want to use same methods they are using to see results. It does not work like that most of the time. We can learn from others, take their advises but use different weapons and style to fight ours. What works for me might not work for you. Make sure you understand this because this might be the reason you not moving forward, you working in circles

Battles can be won, struggles can be defeated, changes can happen and new positive habits can be developed; only when we understand. We can destroy what we thought it’s a struggle and change a situation that we thought it’s permanent when we are aware; when we accept and deal with a challenge. Avoidance, laziness, procrastination, fear, lack of confidence and focus cannot take us to any victories

Take charge and be an overcomer. Don’t look on the sides, stay in your lane and do yourself a good service. It can take time, but it will end at the right time. This is a lesson I have learned and I am still learning and I thought I should share with you

A Blissful and Joyful day to you All 🌹

Published by mashikoane

A realist, always fond of things that are real and matters. The lover of writing and a staunch reader, growing up with a burning passion of writing. I always have a pen a pad with me, life is a story that I never want to miss writing about. It always fascinates me when we are categorized as introverts and extroverts because that on its own is the reason behind every personality. I grew up being referred to as an “introvert” and I later understood the personality behind it: quite, reserved, peaceful, creative mind & thinking; antisocial and very analytical. Being in that space I always knew that as a writer or reader you cannot do that in a noisy or busy place; you need a quite and peaceful environment. It is interesting how I found myself being able to fit all that I love doing in this space that I find myself loving because I fit so perfectly (besides the stereotypes, it is the truth): they all fit, my list is endless but what I know for sure is that “I am born an artist” I am married to my loving and supportive husband for 23 years, Collen and we are blessed with four children; three adult boys; all grown ups and the youngest teen daughter who is still with us and in high school. I am University graduate with a B.A degree in Social Science (majored in Psychology, Sociology and Anthropology), graduated with MBA in Sports in 2011. Worked for more 13 years until 2009 when we began our diplomatic life as a family. What I am grateful for is that there is always a bigger plan and things happen for a reason. Although mostly often, we do not have answers; all that matters is that we share those experiences and life lessons to inspire and lift others up. This is my passion and I am thrilled by challenges; good or bad and my mind likes solving mysteries that I believe are real; sometimes hidden and not spoken about. My favorite authors Danielle Steel and Agatha Christie always challenges my thinking and approach in life. I began reading their books from 14 years and I am still their fan reader. They share their stories in writing and as someone who likes sharing, I quickly connected with them My life is all about the real world: family, marriage, relationships, health, children, parenting, spirituality, cooking, leisure, travel, reading, writing, engaging, connecting, encouraging......I love sharing Sharing is golden

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